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Before we get started, I want to direct you to an even better article about how to pleasure the clitoris and vulva. No bias here, I swear. I just love vulval pleasure! If you want to give the best blow job ever, my best advice to is talk to your partner about your desires and ask them to share theirs.

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Here are some of the most amazing secrets I have learned about blowjobs while studying sexuality over the last 12 years that will help you give a mindblowing blowjob! If you want to give your partner an awesome blowjob experience, you first have to commit to the process and be authentic in your desire to please your partner orally. Find a part of you that can help you out mentally while in the process. Make sure your mind knows that this is what you want to be doing. Mindset DOES matter. Some people get overwhelmed by the thought of giving a blowjob. They start to fear that it will hurt them or that they will get tired.

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This gives you the power to go down on your partner for as long as it is enjoyable, and then you can switch to something else. Stretch your neck — left and right.

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Hold for 10 seconds on each side. For those of you with long hair, get a hair tie! Your hair will get in the way. Make sure you discuss STIs prior to beginning oral sex. You can ask to use a condom over the penis if you want to protect from certain STIs. One other thing before you start, ask if any parts of the body are off limits. Ask if you have free reign to touch thighs, ass, anus, stomach, etc.

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Make sure your body is in a comfortable position while giving. If you need to move your partner or yourself at any time to get more comfortable, do it. People get injured and pull muscles giving blowjobs, because they are too embarrassed to ask their partner to move. While giving a blowjob, make sure you ask what feels good. Get an idea of the pressure that works, the spot that is most sensitive for them, and the speed they are enjoying. Give positive feedback to your partner about how you are enjoying this experience.

Giving positive feedback during any type of sex is always a good idea! When giving a blowjob, try to provide visual stimulation. Some angles, like 69 or queeningare often huge turn ons prior to beginning the blowjob or during it. If you can, cup your chest together and stroke his shaft up and down.

Gently caress and touch his package with your hands and other parts of your body. Sometimes, wearing a certain outfit or performing a strip tease can enhance the blowjob moment.

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Saliva or lube? It depends! If you are going to use lube, apply it at this point by putting some in your hands and stroking his shaft.

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When putting your mouth on a penis, be sure to use your lips and tongue to wet the area. Go up and down the shaft, kind of like a harmonica. No Vampires! Be careful of teeth and keep them away unless he asks for it. There are only a FEW cases where I have heard individuals enjoying the sensation of teeth. Most often, it is NOT wanted. If you want to try deepthroating, cover your teeth with your lips and try to fit the shaft in your mouth without using your hands.

Try to go as deep as you can without being uncomfortable or gagging.

How to give a mind-blowing bj

If you gag in the beginning, I have been told that it is attractive to some receivers of the blowjob. Assess your partner and ask if they are enjoying the deepthroating sensation.

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You do not have to suck on anything. You do not need to put ice or mints in your mouth! Recalibrate together, and see if your receiver is interested in having your hand wrapped around their shaft.

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If yes, move your hand directly under your mouth, creating a warm, wet space for the penis to go in and out of. Ask the receiver if they enjoy testicles being played with, because you can use one hand to touch those. Feel free to lick them while playing if you have consent. Look up at your receiving partner once in a while to see if there is enjoyment. If you want to use your hands, which makes for an easier blowjob for the person giving, there are a couple different techniques to try that are often a success!

Use your hand as an extension of your mouth. Slide it up and down the shaft; as your mouth moves, your hand moves. You can try different things with this move such as twisting your hand one inch in either a clockwise or counterclockwise direction down his shaft. Weave : Interlock both hands palms facing one another together at the fingers.

Have the base of both your palms touching and let the shaft glide in between your hands. Double Hands : Another variation is to place one hand over the other one if needed for more pressure.

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Sometimes, those receiving the blowjob will put their hand on their shaft for you, to help you out. That is a blessing, because it helps you know what you are lacking.

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If needed, use more saliva or lube to ensure a pleasurable sensation. You can begin to use your tongue to flick under the head of the penis, the frenulum, which creates an instant sensation. Usually, you will notice the leg muscles or stomach muscles begin to clench pre-ejaculation.

Keep constant pressure and do not change technique at this moment. Continue stimulation until the agreed upon discuss this before giving head end of the blowjob or until your partner ejaculates. In summary, giving a blowjob to ejaculation is kind of like riding a bike uphill. It is important to maintain a steady progression to the top. If you slow down, you may go backwards. Keep your speed and pressure consistent or increase it as you go. Ejaculation vs Orgasm — there are times that men do NOT ejaculate, yet they orgasm. When you have the feeling of energy surge through your entire body, that is an orgasm.

Sometimes ejaculate happens at the same time. Pleasure is the goal. Orgasm is a great side-effect! Better World! Now that you know how to give a blowjob, try out these techniques and let us know if you have any other suggestions to share.

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Our team of compassionate, d therapists and certified sex therapists help Millennials and Baby Boomers alike who visit us for a variety of relationship, intimacy and sex problems. Call or text us at or make an appointment. Have a Positive Mindset If you want to give your partner an awesome blowjob experience, you first have to commit to the process and be authentic in your desire to please your partner orally. Be Prepared Hydrate! Open and close your jaw to prepare for penetration.

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Make sure you have lube in case you need it. Calibrate Your Touch While giving a blowjob, make sure you ask what feels good. Provide Visual Stimulation When giving a blowjob, try to provide visual stimulation.

How to give a mind-blowing bj

Perfect Your Stroke Technique Saliva or lube? Ask for input on desired speed, intensity, and pressure. Remember… blowing does not have to be involved. Perfect Your Hand Techniques Recalibrate together, and see if your receiver is interested in having your hand wrapped around their shaft. Ask about the pressure and speed. Completion of The Blowjob You can begin to use your tongue to flick under the head of the penis, the frenulum, which creates an instant sensation.